I’ve come to realize that the phrase “follow your passion” is one of the most misleading pieces of advice out there. We’re all told to chase what we love, but what if what you love doesn’t pay the bills? So here I am, stuck in a job I tolerate while doodling in my sketchbook during lunch breaks, dreaming of a world where I can monetize my passion. Sometimes I wonder if my “real” life is the one I ...
I spent my first year in college thinking I had to stick to my major just because I declared it. Spoiler alert: I changed it three times and finally found something I’m actually passionate about. If you ever feel overwhelmed by expectations—yours or others’—just remember that it’s okay to explore. The pressure to have it all figured out right away is real, but life is too short to spend it in a fi...
I don’t get why professors act like we’re all supposed to have our lives figured out by the time we step foot on campus. They hand us mountains of readings and exams, all while reminding us to “network” and “find our passion” like it’s as simple as ordering takeout. Meanwhile, I’m just trying not to drown in student loans and the pressure to declare a major that I might change three more times. It feels like a giant game of roulette, and all I picked was a number that could leave me broke and confused for the next decade.
I don’t get why professors act like we’re all supposed to have our lives figured out by the time we step foot on campus. They hand us mountains of readings and exams, all while reminding us to “network” and “find our passion” like it’s as simple as ordering takeout. Meanwhile, I’m just trying not to drown in student loans and the pressure to declare a major that I might change three more times. It feels like a giant game of roulette, and all I picked was a number that could leave me broke and confused for the next decade.
I’ve realized that the most valuable lessons in college aren’t found in the lectures or textbooks, but in the late-night conversations over pizza and the awkward moments at parties, when you find yourself bonding with strangers over shared anxiety about finals. If you’re still trying to decide on a major, don’t stress too much about what sounds “smart” or “prestigious.” Choose something you love, ...