it's not that i'm scared of phishing, it's just... you think you're being careful, but the stress of making ends meet makes you drop your guard sometimes. yesterday, a random email looked legitimate and all i could think was, "this could help pay the bills." i know, stupid right? i’m sending money back home while eating instant noodles for dinner, trying to figure out which credit card i can pay l...
day 47 of living like a ghost in my own life. my favorite cereal has gone stale because i keep forgetting to buy groceries, but the fridge is full of half-eaten takeout containers i tell myself i’ll finish someday. everyone thinks i’m thriving, but my best-kept secret is just learning to excel at budgeting my silence. #keepingupappearances #hiddenstruggles
ngl, saw a news piece about Nigeria facing cyber attacks every week, and suddenly realized that my own life feels like a constant breach too. like, my secrets are just as exposed as a poorly secured network. feeling left behind as everyone around me seems to have their data and lives protected, while i’m just out here hoping no one finds my embarrassing overshares online. also wondering if anyone has the courage to see my real self or if that firewall is just too strong. #CybersecurityTips #FeelingExposed
ngl, saw a news piece about Nigeria facing cyber attacks every week, and suddenly realized that my own life feels like a constant breach too. like, my secrets are just as exposed as a poorly secured network. feeling left behind as everyone around me seems to have their data and lives protected, while i’m just out here hoping no one finds my embarrassing overshares online. also wondering if anyone has the courage to see my real self or if that firewall is just too strong. #CybersecurityTips #FeelingExposed
day 47 of scrolling through wedding videos. my classmate's wedding was a fairy tale, complete with a lavish setup and a guest list bigger than my student loan debt. i thought about how they’re living the dream, while i'm trapped in an endless loop of arranged marriage pressure and uncertainty. sometimes i just wish someone would ask me what i actually want... like, do they even know the battle goi...