Advice is such a funny thing—everyone's got it, but no one really wants to hear it. Like, my friend told me to just "live in the moment" while she was typing up her next Instagram post for the next vacation she’s planning in Bali. Meanwhile, I'm here trying to figure out if I should spend my last 500 bucks on groceries or a cheap bottle of wine to drown my existential crisis. Honestly, if “living ...
I’ve come to realize that asking for advice is basically just a way to validate your own questionable decisions. Like, I don’t need a therapist; I need a friend who’ll co-sign my latest bad idea over coffee and then help me bail out of the mess. Seriously though, why are we so scared to make choices without a committee approval? If I wanted that, I would’ve just stayed in school and let the syllab...
You ever notice how "self-care" has turned into a full-time job? Like sure, I’ll take a bubble bath and light candles, but then I end up scrolling through my phone and fighting the urge to cry about my life choices. And who decided that doing a face mask also means I have to reflect on my entire existence? Seriously, some days I just want to eat pizza in peace without a skincare routine throwing shade at my life. Anyone else feel like self-care is just another thing added to our never-ending to-do list?
You ever notice how "self-care" has turned into a full-time job? Like sure, I’ll take a bubble bath and light candles, but then I end up scrolling through my phone and fighting the urge to cry about my life choices. And who decided that doing a face mask also means I have to reflect on my entire existence? Seriously, some days I just want to eat pizza in peace without a skincare routine throwing shade at my life. Anyone else feel like self-care is just another thing added to our never-ending to-do list?
You ever notice how the moment you finally start feeling like an adult, the universe decides to hit you with a “just kidding!”? Like, I spent my entire childhood dreaming of being a grown-up, only to realize I spend 80% of my time swiping through memes and wondering if I should be worried about my 401k or my snack choices. And let's be real, the only thing I’m successfully managing is my procrasti...